Category Archives: Inspiration

If Opportunity Doesn’t Knock

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images[7]If you’re sitting back waiting for an opportunity to come knocking at your door and nothing is knocking.

Then there are two things I will say.

  1. 1.  It’s not likely that one will knock.
  2. 2.  You’re going to have to build the door first.

In other words you are going to have to take action before an opportunity will come knocking.

A lot of people think that the law of attraction means that if they wish for things to turn up in their lives, they will.

It actually doesn’t work like that.  You have to set things in motion before the things that you want will arrive in your life.

Sitting on the couch dreaming of what you want will not make it magically appear.

Ever heard of Newton’s Third Law, for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.

Basically this means that you have to take action toward your goal to get the ball rolling.

This will then give the opportunities that you seek a way to come a knocking.

If you’re ready to take ACTION and want an opportunity to KNOCK…

Then start building your DOOR HERE.

What Are You Waiting For?

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images[8]What are you waiting for?

Here are two reasons that you may not be doing something towards changing your life.

Are you waiting for the right time?

Or, do you think that you have plenty of time.

In reality, there is never the right time to do what you need to do to start changing your life, and regarding time, you never know how much time you have.

That leaves the present to get started.

What are you waiting for?  Start today, don’t wait, and get your life moving in the direction you want.



When Life Gives You Lemons

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imagesW12ALG0GHave you ever really thought about the saying, “When life gives you lemons make lemonade.”

A lot of the time t’s more than simply making the best of things.

How do you really deal with the lemons that life throws at you?

The best way in my opinion is to sit down and assess the situation.  Look at what worked and what didn’t.

Most of the time when a problem turns up you focus on the bad stuff, the stuff that didn’t work and obsess about it.

You forget to look at the part that did work.

When you look at what actually worked no matter how small it is, you will have a metal shift.

You will start to figure out how to make lemonade.

Even what you initially thought went wrong may have parts that actually worked.

Then it’s just a matter of throwing out what you don’t need, and keeping what you do, and once you have figured out the new recipe you’re ready to go.

And keep tweaking that recipe until it’s just right.

When life gives you lemons make lemonade.



The Best Revenge

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images[8]No matter how often people tell you that you can’t do something over the years, the best way to deal with the negativity is to have massive success. Throughout my school years I was always told that I wasn’t smart enough to get any further than what was an equivalent to a GED in England. This year at the end of the spring semester I completed one Associates Degree, and have only three more classes to finish a second. Those people who told me that I would not be able to accomplish those goals are no longer in my life. However, the feeling of being able to blow a huge raspberry and several hand signals at them felt great. I proved them wrong. You can prove the people who have been negative in your life wrong as well. It may take time, persistence, and a lot of learning.  However the reward is worth it. Not only do you realize that what others say does not have to determine what you can accomplish. Your confidence grows, you have new skill sets, and you start to feel that the impossible is possible. Take the advice of Ol’ Blue Eyes, “The best revenge is massive success.” – Frank Sinatra   Make Massive Success Happen.

Change Your Mindset

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images4OXLT2URTo be successful you have to change your mindset.

Throughout our lives we can pick up self-limiting beliefs, and it’s these beliefs that can be the difference between succeeding or not.

As you move forward down your path to your success you can be actually be sabotaging yourself, as these beliefs can sneak up on you.

You have to be aware when they show up, and you have to find ways of defeating them.

There are many books out there to help you overcome these beliefs, to make you realize what they are, and how to deal and get rid of them.

That is another reason why you should be constantly reading.  Not just to gain the knowledge to master what you need to realize your DREAM.

You also have to do a lot of self-improvement along the way to your SUCCESS and your NEW LIFE.

No matter how much you want to change your life it’s unlikely to happen if you have self-limiting beliefs.

Get out there; improve yourself and CHANGE YOUR MINDSET.




From a Different Perspective

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imagesLP7P76FZSometimes you need to look at your challenges from a different perspective.

Take yourself out of the equation.

What would you say to a friend that came to you with the problem you’re having?

What I do when a friend comes to me with a problem is I tell them that I’m not telling them what to do; I’m just giving them suggestions.

Then I clarify with them what they have been doing so they have a clear idea of what has led them to this point.

Next I explain that if they carry on doing what they’ve been doing they will only end up with the same results.  This might seem obvious; nevertheless, sometimes we don’t see the obvious when we are in the situation.

Then I will suggest three or four different ways they could deal with the challenge.  These suggestions may vary only slightly from each other as I’m only trying to give them something to think about.

I want them to think and come up with a solution to their challenge themselves.

How can this help you figure out your challenge?

Take yourself out of the equation.

Run through the steps that I’ve just explained, and when you come up with the three or four suggestions, guess what?

You have three or four ideas on how to deal with your challenge.

You can pick one, mixed them together, the choice is yours.

You got there by looking at your challenge from a different perspective, because “Sometimes You Need To Look At Life From A Different Perspective.”


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Stop Thinking Too Much

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imagesPN52AUPWSometimes you want to know the answers before you start.

The trouble is you actually have to do whatever it is to get the answers.

And so you get stuck.

You start thinking too much on trying to come up with the answers, instead of taking action to figure the answers out.

Humans are natural problem solvers.  We learn by doing.  We figure out what works and what doesn’t, and come to a conclusion.

In other words the answers come to you while you are in the process.

You are unable to fix or change anything by staying static, you need to have activity.

It is perfectly okay to not know the answers when you start down your path to changing your life.

Ideas will pop up when you least expect them, and the more you take action on those ideas, the more will turn up.

You start giving your brain permission to work on the challenges that face you, and the more you pay attention and take action the more your brain will work.

Don’t worry how the answers will come, “Stop thinking too much, it’s alright not to know the answers.  They will come to you when you least expect it.”



No Matter How Slow You Go

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fitness-motivational-quotes-1[1]It doesn’t matter how fast you go when taking action toward your goals.

It is important that you take an action no matter how small every day.

Over time these individual actions will mount up, and you will start seeing results.

You will be able to fine tune the outcomes and build on what you have already achieved.

Change never really happens overnight.

Even when we see people rise to the top suddenly, in reality they have been taking action toward that goal for quite some time.

That is why it is good idea to read about other people, and how they managed to achieve what they have.

It will give you a different perspective.  It will show you that it takes constant action to achieve what you desire.

It is true that massive action will propel you forward quicker.

However, you can be the tortoise that wins the race too.

You should never put off doing something toward your goal because you feel that the task at hand is too big.  Break down the task into smaller chunks, chunks that you can fit into your day.

“No matter how slow you go, you are still lapping everybody on the couch.”



Trust Yourself

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images8RB0HFLQSometimes life throws us curve balls.

It’s how we deal with these curve balls that make all the difference in our lives.

The other day life threw me a curve ball.

I could have thrown in the towel and got really negative.  I’m not saying that I didn’t rant for a bit, because I did, and sometimes you need to blow off a bit of steam to get over the initial reaction to the problem.

However, after I got over the initial damn it – or words to that effect.  I thought about the situation and made a decision that would keep me moving forward.

I had no idea whether this decision was the right choice or not.

The next morning I took action on that decision, and by early evening I received and answer that the choice that I had made was the right one for this moment in time.

I trusted myself to make the right decision, and took action.

Whether or not this choice will yield the results that I want is yet to be found out.

Even if the outcome isn’t exactly what I would like, I know that I’m able to adjust to get the desired results.  Nothing is set in stone, and I’m still moving forward on my path to a better life, so nothing will be lost.

When life throws you curve balls, you just have to, “trust yourself. You know more than you think you do.”

Make a decision, take action, and move forward.

Trust in Yourself.

Outside of the Box

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images25VUOUVWIf you want to change things, then you’re going to have to think outside of the box.


If things were working for you, you wouldn’t be looking to change your life.

Millions of other people wouldn’t be moaning about their current situation

You and all those others would be already living your dreams.

You have to do what the majority of others will not do, and that is to THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX.

It will be highly unlikely that you will be able to make the income that will support the life style you want working for someone else.

And if you do make the income, you will not have the time to enjoy what you now can afford.

One way of getting both is to have your own business where you can control your income and control your time so you can reap the benefits of your labor.

It will not be easy at first.  With any business you have to put in the work before you get the benefits.  This is commonly known as “paying your dues.”

If you’re not willing to “pay your dues,” then carry on doing what you’re doing.

If however, you want to change your life and follow your dreams start by…


Remember to think outside of the box.


I’m out of the box.

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