Monthly Archives: August 2014

Release What’s Holding You Back

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imagesC56Q0N06What’s holding you back?

Why are you still where you don’t want to be?

To change where you are to where you want to be, you are going to have to release what’s holding you back.

You may think it’s not having enough time that’s holding you back.

You may think it’s another person that’s holding you back.

You may think it’s because you don’t know how to change your life that’s holding you back.

There may be countless of other things that you think are holding you back.

BUT THESE ARE NOT THE THINGS THAT ARE HODLING YOU BACK.

These are the excuses you are using.

You’re going to have to dig deep to find the real reason/s.

And when you find the real reason/s you’re going to have to, “Release what’s holding you back,” to allow you to be FREE to live your life.

 

Start being FREE here.

When Life Gives You Lemons

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imagesW12ALG0GHave you ever really thought about the saying, “When life gives you lemons make lemonade.”

A lot of the time t’s more than simply making the best of things.

How do you really deal with the lemons that life throws at you?

The best way in my opinion is to sit down and assess the situation.  Look at what worked and what didn’t.

Most of the time when a problem turns up you focus on the bad stuff, the stuff that didn’t work and obsess about it.

You forget to look at the part that did work.

When you look at what actually worked no matter how small it is, you will have a metal shift.

You will start to figure out how to make lemonade.

Even what you initially thought went wrong may have parts that actually worked.

Then it’s just a matter of throwing out what you don’t need, and keeping what you do, and once you have figured out the new recipe you’re ready to go.

And keep tweaking that recipe until it’s just right.

When life gives you lemons make lemonade.

 

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Where there’s a Will

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images894HWVNWNo matter what your circumstances, if you have the will you will find a way to change it.

You just have to ask yourself, how much will have you got?

Have you got enough will to do what it takes not matter how narrow or high the path gets?

Classes started today, and as I sat there listening to the Professor he said something that sounded familiar.

He started to talk about how amazed he was on how many people moan and whine about their jobs and life yet do nothing to change the situation.

He also said it amazed him how often opportunities and people turned up at the right time, if you followed your passion.

I too have found these two statements to be true, and have probably written about them at some time or another.

Where there’s a will there’s a way.

 

Find your way here.

The Key to Happiness

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quote-to-find-out-what-one-is-fitted-to-do-and-to-secure-an-opportunity-to-do-it-is-the-key-to-john-dewey-50089[1]There comes a time when you’re going to have to make a choice.

There is no getting around the fact that in our society you need an income, and you’re going to have to make the choice on how you are going to make that income.

As you move down you’re path to a better life you have discovered that you need more income and more time to do what you want to do than you currently have.

This may have got you stuck.

However, you do have to move from dreaming about you’re new life to taking action to achieve it.

There is no getting around that you will have to find and secure an opportunity that you are fitted to do, and that you will be happy doing.

This step is by no means an easy one.

You may have no idea what you would like to do that would bring you the income that you need to achieve your goals.

Or you may not be able to find a way of making the idea you have bring in the income you need.

It is just a matter of finding the right opportunity, “to find out what one is fitted to do, and to secure an opportunity to do it, is the key to happiness.”

  • John Dewey

Get out there; find you’re opportunity and happiness.

 

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The Best Revenge

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images[8]No matter how often people tell you that you can’t do something over the years, the best way to deal with the negativity is to have massive success. Throughout my school years I was always told that I wasn’t smart enough to get any further than what was an equivalent to a GED in England. This year at the end of the spring semester I completed one Associates Degree, and have only three more classes to finish a second. Those people who told me that I would not be able to accomplish those goals are no longer in my life. However, the feeling of being able to blow a huge raspberry and several hand signals at them felt great. I proved them wrong. You can prove the people who have been negative in your life wrong as well. It may take time, persistence, and a lot of learning.  However the reward is worth it. Not only do you realize that what others say does not have to determine what you can accomplish. Your confidence grows, you have new skill sets, and you start to feel that the impossible is possible. Take the advice of Ol’ Blue Eyes, “The best revenge is massive success.” – Frank Sinatra   Make Massive Success Happen.

Change Your Mindset

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images4OXLT2URTo be successful you have to change your mindset.

Throughout our lives we can pick up self-limiting beliefs, and it’s these beliefs that can be the difference between succeeding or not.

As you move forward down your path to your success you can be actually be sabotaging yourself, as these beliefs can sneak up on you.

You have to be aware when they show up, and you have to find ways of defeating them.

There are many books out there to help you overcome these beliefs, to make you realize what they are, and how to deal and get rid of them.

That is another reason why you should be constantly reading.  Not just to gain the knowledge to master what you need to realize your DREAM.

You also have to do a lot of self-improvement along the way to your SUCCESS and your NEW LIFE.

No matter how much you want to change your life it’s unlikely to happen if you have self-limiting beliefs.

Get out there; improve yourself and CHANGE YOUR MINDSET.

LIVE the LIFE YOU WANT.

 

BE FREE.

Don’t Jump to the End

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imagesCZ6GPF1NToday people want to jump straight to the end.  They want everything now.  They want instant gratification.

The problem with getting everything without taking the journey is that once they have it within weeks they are bored, and are seeking the next thing they want.

They have forgotten about the journey.

The journey with all that goes along with it is what gives you the satisfaction once you have accomplished whatever it was, and that feeling of accomplishment can last a lifetime.

It is those accomplishments that will give you the confidence to aim higher and take on bigger challenges that will lead you to your BIG DREAM.

Don’t skip the journey because, “you can’t jump straight to the end.  The Journey’s the best part.”

 

From a Different Perspective

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imagesLP7P76FZSometimes you need to look at your challenges from a different perspective.

Take yourself out of the equation.

What would you say to a friend that came to you with the problem you’re having?

What I do when a friend comes to me with a problem is I tell them that I’m not telling them what to do; I’m just giving them suggestions.

Then I clarify with them what they have been doing so they have a clear idea of what has led them to this point.

Next I explain that if they carry on doing what they’ve been doing they will only end up with the same results.  This might seem obvious; nevertheless, sometimes we don’t see the obvious when we are in the situation.

Then I will suggest three or four different ways they could deal with the challenge.  These suggestions may vary only slightly from each other as I’m only trying to give them something to think about.

I want them to think and come up with a solution to their challenge themselves.

How can this help you figure out your challenge?

Take yourself out of the equation.

Run through the steps that I’ve just explained, and when you come up with the three or four suggestions, guess what?

You have three or four ideas on how to deal with your challenge.

You can pick one, mixed them together, the choice is yours.

You got there by looking at your challenge from a different perspective, because “Sometimes You Need To Look At Life From A Different Perspective.”

 

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Stop Thinking Too Much

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imagesPN52AUPWSometimes you want to know the answers before you start.

The trouble is you actually have to do whatever it is to get the answers.

And so you get stuck.

You start thinking too much on trying to come up with the answers, instead of taking action to figure the answers out.

Humans are natural problem solvers.  We learn by doing.  We figure out what works and what doesn’t, and come to a conclusion.

In other words the answers come to you while you are in the process.

You are unable to fix or change anything by staying static, you need to have activity.

It is perfectly okay to not know the answers when you start down your path to changing your life.

Ideas will pop up when you least expect them, and the more you take action on those ideas, the more will turn up.

You start giving your brain permission to work on the challenges that face you, and the more you pay attention and take action the more your brain will work.

Don’t worry how the answers will come, “Stop thinking too much, it’s alright not to know the answers.  They will come to you when you least expect it.”

 

JUST TAKE ACTION.

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